Talking with someone who has dementia
A memory disorder changes a person's ability to understand and express things, and conversations can frustrate both of you. With small changes to the way you speak, you can reduce conflicts and keep your connection with your loved one.
You will need
- A calm environment without background noise
- Photos, music or objects to support memories
- Patience and time
- Information about your local memory association or memory nurse
Steps
Quieten the surroundings
Turn off the television and radio and sit face to face at the same level. Background noise makes it harder to concentrate.
Start with their name and eye contact
Speak briefly and clearly
Ask easy questions
Do not argue
Answer repetition patiently
Use memories
Look after yourself
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