Resolving sibling fights

Fights between siblings are normal, and they are a way of practising important skills. An adult can help children resolve disputes themselves and reduce fights by anticipating them.

You will need

• A quiet place to calm down
• The family's shared rules on display
• A timer for taking turns
• One-to-one time with each child

Steps

1. Identify the triggers

   Watch for a week when fights happen. They are often linked to hunger, tiredness or a particular toy or device.

2. Anticipate situations

3. Step in immediately if there is violence

4. Let both of them speak

5. Guide them to a solution

6. Avoid comparisons

7. Arrange one-to-one time

8. Praise cooperation

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